Sadism is a psychological term describing a tendency to derive pleasure by causing pain:

Sadism is a psychological term describing a tendency to derive pleasure, satisfaction, excitement, or a sense of power from causing pain, humiliation, distress, or suffering to another person.

The term is used in several contexts:

  • Sexual Sadism: Sexual arousal or gratification associated with another person’s suffering, humiliation, or pain. When this involves non-consenting people or causes significant impairment/distress, it may meet criteria for a mental disorder and criminal violence.
  • Non-sexual Sadism: Enjoyment of dominating, humiliating, frightening, or deliberately hurting others outside a sexual context.
  • Everyday use: Someone may be called “sadistic” simply because they appear unusually cruel or enjoy seeing others suffer; this may not necessarily mean they have a psychiatric disorder.

Sadism vs. Masochism

TermBasic meaning
SadismPleasure from causing suffering or humiliation
MasochismPleasure from experiencing suffering or humiliation
Sadomasochism (SM)Involves elements of both

An important distinction is consent. Consensual BDSM activities may involve pain, dominance, or humiliation without automatically indicating psychopathology. The clinical concern is more about lack of consent, significant distress/impairment, or harm. Intimacy Should Not Include Violence.

Shervan K Shahhian

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